Real Shiahs and the Grief at the Deprivation of Communing with the Beloved

Which is desirable in Islam, grief or happiness? The answer to this question differ according to the different situations. Although man will never be without grief in the material world, he is always in search of happiness by nature and he is elusive of grief. However, this aspect of creation is due to the fact that man is created to be tested. We have duties towards each grief, happiness, blast and disconformity, and we are being tested for each one of them. Should we forget Allah at once and become aggressive and proud, when we are blessed with an asset? Or do we gratify Allah in all situations? In Islam, if the source of happiness and grief is valuable, then it is good, if not, they are not desirable. There will be sufficient rewards for desirable happiness and grief. A believer must be aware of the fact that whatever he has, belongs to Allah, and there is always something good in losing them. There is a blessing in disguise.