Facing women with disruption of the tranquility in marital life

The purpose of this study was to investigate how to face with disruption of sense of tranquility in marital life among married women living in Tehran. This research has been done using grounded theory method and deployment of deep interview technique. In the facing with disruption of sense of tranquility, which is the result of the gap between the assets and demands of women, so has led them to adopt a set of strategies with two general approaches of "change in assets" including the modification of the spousal relationship, the management of interactive problems with families, improving the status of children, paying attention to self and removing structural barriers, with the aim of changing the available status into desirable, and "change in demands" including reducing demands, patiently Forgiveness and choosing the null relationship, with the aim of accepting the available status. Choosing these strategies and their effectiveness is affected by a set of conditions such as “decision-making factors" including the husband's approach, religious beliefs, domination of affection and exterior constraint.